new rule if a debate can be boiled down to one side saying “you should care about other people” that side is right fullstop we are only allowed debates now to figure out how to best to care about other people dont ever come to my ted talks again
happy 4th of july! consider donating to Black and indigenous individuals or charities today. yesterday (july 3rd 2020) multiple protestors were arrested while blocking road access to mt rushmore, a monument that was made by stealing and defacing sacred land belonging to the Lakota people. you can donate to the Black Hills Bail and Legal Defense Fund here.
This is also an excellent example of providing breed-adequate enrichment, because Border Collies are herding dogs. They were bred to run a lot and do multiple quick and sharp turns, so if you can’t provide your collie with an actual herd of animals to… well… herd, an obstacle course like this is a great alternative. That dog is having the time of her life.
one of the worst myths perpetuated in fiction i think is the idea that teenagers get angry and hate their parents for no real reason. it’s one of the endless ways older folks trivialize the real hurt and frustration and pain that teenagers experience - which, with no small amount of irony, can come from that very kind of trivialization.
when i was an angry and hormonal teenager, i was taught i was having a rebellious phase. my mother taught me i was being disrespectful to her. media taught me it was a product of being an irrational teenager. but when that shit didn’t fade as i grew up, when i grew even more bitter towards her, i started learning that it was actually a completely rational response to the literal years of abuse from her. i wasn’t just angry, i was traumatized. still am.
and to this day, I’ve never met a teenager who is “irrationally” hateful towards their parents. and maybe that’s a product of not knowing any entitled rich kids, but my point stands. teenagers are real people with real emotions, which don’t come out of nowhere or exist for no reason. teenage anger and pain may be harder for them to express or control, but its existence is not irrational. and i HATE every depiction of the irrational, parent hating teenager in media who opposes all adults just because they are teenagers, rather than because of any of the very real reasons teenagers have to be angry and hurt.
